Saturday, May 4, 2013

Freedom: Myth or Reality

Living overseas, especially in an Islamic Kingdom, has changed the way I look at our world.  We have lived here now for 2 and half, almost 3 years, and when I think back to America, I can't believe how much freedom we have.  I see daily on facebook and twitter, people posting articles and statuses about how as a nation we are loosing rights left and right.  It may be true, and I am 100% for our rights and freedoms, it is what makes us the United States of America.  We were founded by those fleeing the oppression of their native countries, seeking freedom.  But I have to ask the question, what are you doing with your freedom?

In the U.S., we have the freedom of speech.  We can say whatever we want about whoever we want.  We have the right to peacefully protest, to have marches, to start petitions.  We as normal people, through our State Reps, can actually change things if we are determined enough.  We can elect who we want to be in office.  Granted it may not always feel like we have a voice or a chance, but we do.  In the country we now live in, people are allowed to protest, if they contact the appropriate officials in advance and get permission.  Police will meet them at their designated location and make sure nothing gets out of hand.  If you say something bad about the King or the Prophet, you go to jail.  The people can get the opportunity to vote on their parliament, but the King can (and has) fired them all and set up a new parliament.  But the same people run again for election to Parliament, they pay off people for votes, and get elected into the same positions for their lifetime.  Regardless, the King does what he wants, and has the authority to do so, the average citizen has no ability whatsoever to instigate change.  Thankfully in our Kingdom, we really do have a good, kind King who listens to the people and what they want.  We are blessed to have a King who is looking out for the welfare of his people, and although it may not always be felt, a freedom is lacking.

In the U.S., we have the freedom of Religion.  We can believe anything we want, we can change around from religion to religion if we so desire, we can make up our own religion.  We can do it, and no one can stop us.  Here, we have freedom of religion as well.  You are free to be of whatever faith you were born.  Zoe is free to be a Christian because on her birth certificate it says she's a Christian and that's all she's free to be, well, except Muslim.

Now, here, we may live under a Monarchy and not have the voice or the freedoms from government that we have in the U.S., but the aspect of this country which really impedes upon a persons freedoms is the culture.  I have been talking a lot about this with my language tutors recently.  The difference between religion and culture.  While the religion between Christians and Muslims in my country is quite different, their culture is the same.  I have the freedom legally to walk outside dressed however I like, but if I go out in a mini skirt and a tube top, the culture is quickly going to catch up with me.  I will get harassed, probably grabbed and most likely propositioned.  Therefore, long sleeves, long pants/skirts and loose clothing it is.  I have the freedom legally to go out of the house by myself at any time of the day I want, but if I go out by myself after dark, the culture will quickly catch up with me.  I have the freedom to walk on the street with a man who is not my husband, but the culture will quickly catch up with me.  A girl has the freedom to have sex outside of marriage, but a male family member (brother or father) might abuse or kill her and he might go to prison for 6 months.  That's right folks, this is cultural not religious.

So, as I read tweets and status updates about people's unhappiness with political changes in the U.S., I challenge you to be thankful for the freedoms that you do have.  Put feet to your words and do something about those things you are unhappy about, because that is your right, your freedom, and you have the ability to make change.  Live life, take advantage of the freedoms you have.

On another note:  Happy Easter!  We are free to celebrate Easter, but if we do, we must celebrate on the day the King tells us to.  

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Seven Months!

Our little Zoe is seven months old now!  Oh how time flies!  She is growing so quickly these days.  She started eating solid food at 6 months and has loved it.  So far her favorite is Sweet Potatoes, followed by Avocado and Banana.  She is learning new things everyday.  She has favorite toys, and has now entered the stage of crying as loud as she can if you take that toy away or if you don't give it to her quick enough.  I think in the next few weeks, she will really become more mobile.  Right now, she sits up really well, she will reach for toys out of her reach and go to her belly then immediately roll to her back or side.  She hates being on her stomach, so she doesn't roll from back to belly very often, and when we put her on her stomach, she just rolls right over.  But she is getting so much stronger, and I think she will begin crawling from the sitting position rather than from laying on her belly.

She is a really great night time sleeper, but has recently been fighting nap time to the extreme.  She sleeps on her side with her arm up covering her head/eyes.  It's pretty cute :)

Well, here she is, our little 7 month old!



Sunday, March 3, 2013

5 Months

Just realized that I'm a little bit behind on these...sorry!

3 Months

4 Months

Our 5 month old little Zoe!

She is getting so big and so smart.  She rolls over from belly to back all the time.  She is so close to sitting up by herself.  She sleeps well at night although naptime is a different story, but recently she has been napping much better.  She is so talkative, loves being around people, laughing and smiling :)

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Learning Arabic

Here's a short video of Zoe learning some Arabic.  Unfortunately you can't really hear her in the video, but you get the idea :)


Wednesday, December 5, 2012

2 Months

I'm a little bit late getting this up, but better late than never!  Today our little girl is 10 weeks old!  I can't believe how fast the time has flown!  I am pretty sure we have been blessed with the best baby ever.  She is amazing and sleeps like a champ which we are pretty excited about :)  She is such a happy baby, loves giving us big smiles and cooing and singing along with us.  She continues to amaze us!